Written Wed., Nov. 24, 2010
As Thanksgiving looms ever nearer (as in VERY near!) I have been reflecting on this past year and all that I have to be grateful for. At the top of my list is friends… we are rich in friends and this has been a year full of opportunities to connect with many!
A year ago we were preparing for our Dec. 27 trip to New Zealand with 5 Warner Pacific College students and an admissions counselor. In Auckland we connected with the our missionaries – Beisleys and Davenports, an Anderson University School of Theology alum, Milan Dekich, who was on the Tri-S missions trip to Peru in 1979 with us just a few weeks before our wedding, other friends and acquaintances from Oregon and Washington, folks from the church in Auckland and Prayer Summit participants from the USA. Facebook and e-mail help us stay connected.
Friends from the past… Milan Dekich and Chad Davenport
I took on a part-time administrative assistant job with SHAPE NW February 1. This was a wonderful opportunity to connect with more pastors and spouses in OR/WA/ID.
We have had speaking opportunities in Oak Grove, LA; Phoenix, AZ; Anderson, IN, Portland, Newberg and Roseburg, OR. In each location we have reconnected with friends from the past (Paul and Gussie Ninemire in Oak Grove ; Craig and Leatha Frank, John and Debbie Frick, John and Mary Davy, Randy and Sandy Irwin, Bob Johnson in Phoenix; Steve Kufeldt and Bob Hazen -visiting his son- in Roseburg) and made new friends. (Please forgive my middle-aged brain if we reconnected and you aren’t mentioned in this update!)
God is opening up more and more doors for me to speak about my passion for helping others declutter so they have time for the important things in life. This next week I will be speaking in John’s Spiritual Formation class about Decluttering: Stewardship of Your Stuff. I’m also in the initial stages of trying to form a new club on the WPC campus that will focus on living simply. More connections!
Our spring break drive back to Anderson, IN gave us an excuse to stop and connect with long-time friends in Casper, WY (Lynne, Jim and Matt Horne and others at Highland Park Community Church) and Omaha, NE (Ray and Nina Martin).
I was privileged to be able to spend 2 months back in Indiana (March 19- May 24) to attend 11 very important family life events: Jonni’s doctoral project presentation to all the PTs and OTs at Ball Memorial Hospital, her graduation from the University of Indianapolis and her graduation reception, Will’s and Mandy’s Senior Art Exhibition, senior paper readings, wedding shower, graduation from Anderson University, graduation party, wedding rehearsal dinner, wedding and receptions! There was certainly no shortage of opportunities for connecting with family from China, Japan, Ohio, Oregon, Virginia… and friends! We welcome our beautiful new daughter-in-law, Amanda Jo (Mandy) Coplin, to the family! The wedding was beautiful, worshipful and fun. The receptions reflected the two very talented artists who just married!
The happy couple – May 22, 2010 – Anderson, Indiana
Stealing a kiss at the evening reception for family and wedding party
Heading off to a new adventure – Mr. and Mrs. Will and Mandy Coplin!
While in the Midwest I headed east to Ohio, Pennsylvania and Virginia connecting with friends from my home church in Mansfield, OH, my sisters and brother-in-law, and the Laytons, friends from our early Korea days.
After the wedding we began the long drive back to Portland, once again stopping in Omaha and then connecting with our Missions@WP team of 4 WPC students and professor Roger Martin and our good friend, Ed Breeden, (from Anderson, IN) in Allen, South Dakota for two nights/days.
Shortly after our return I once again found myself on an airplane headed for Colorado Springs where I connected with pastors and SHAPE administrative assistants. There were many folks around the room whom we have been connected to over the years – college classmates, Living Link pastors, and so on. And while in the Springs I was able to connect with long time friends – Anita Roland from our Cairo, Egypt days and Carol and Ernie Taylor from our Seoul, Korea days.
As soon as I returned home from this trip we reconnected with loyal friends and the three WPC students who would be traveling to Tanzania with us in July to prepare for another big Missions@WP garage sale.
Then it was time to head back to Anderson, IN for North American Convention and another opportunity to connect with friends from “way back when” to the present, friends from near and far, not to mention our four kids, John’s parents and extended family members.J
We had three days to get ready for our trip to Tanzania once we got home… again. Our Tanzania experience was fantastic. We reconnected with missionary friends Mike and Heather Webb, living in their home in Dodoma all but 3 nights of our stay. John had the opportunity to connect with many pastors and laypersons while teaching inductive Bible study methods in Dodoma as well as several small villages. The three WPC students (an Indonesian-Chinese-American, a South African and a COG “missionary kid” born and raised on Guam!) and I worked at the tailoring school in Dodoma. Truly beautiful things happened during our stay and wonderful connections were made with the tailoring school staff, the girls, the translator, Mike and Heather and a number of folks from the churches. We had plenty of opportunities to connect as the WPC students taught business principles and English in churches as well as at the tailoring school. We also spent a night at a game park and bounced around for 6 hours in an open safari truck trying to find the lions. While we weren’t successful in that endeavor we did see a lot of wildlife and enjoyed the experience. We can’t say enough about the great job our students did under less than ideal circumstances. We had a middle-of-the-night cancelled flight in Addis Ababa, an unplanned overnight stay there with 3 hours of sleep, and then two of the three students’ suitcases which contained all their clothes and many of their teaching materials and crafts didn’t arrive for days (one didn’t come until just 2 days before we left Dodoma to head home!) They were great troopers, sharing clothes and making necessary adjustments in lesson plans. They connected so well with the girls and church folks. (By the way, our food and lodging experience was awesome – Mike and Heather were exceptional hosts!)
Mike and Heather Webb, Kelty, Lauren and Dane’ in Dar es Salaam prior to our return home
Within 18 hours after our international flight landed in Portland we were on the road heading up to Double K Ranch in Easton, WA for camp meeting and reconnecting with friends made the summer John was the main speaker at camp. Then it was home to Oregon state camp meeting that took place on the WPC campus. John led a couple missions conferences. More opportunities to connect with our Oregonian friends!
Our good friends Deb and Ed Breeden from Anderson spent a week with us. We always enjoy connecting with them and appreciate the fact that their visits encourage us to get out and experience new things here in Oregon!
Will and Mandy spent twelve days with us in August on their way to Tokyo, Japan where they are teaching conversational English at Tamagawa Seigakuin, a Church of God girls’ high school and middle school. We had a wonderful time together playing games, games and more games, spending a night in a Bed & Breakfast in Silverton and a night at the coast with friends. And we shopped… and shopped….and shopped (actually Mandy and Will shopped and we went along) as they looked for teaching clothes and things they would need in Japan (items such as size 11 shoes are a bit hard to come by in Japan!). We treasure the time we had together and thanks to a photographer friend have plenty of pictures to remind us of that special time.
Framed forever! Gwen, John, Will and Mandy in our Portland backyard…
Two pastors’ wives and I organized a retreat for pastors’ wives in September. It was a wonderful time of fellowship and connecting with pastors’ wives from Washington and Oregon! My original connection with Janelle Irwin, our retreat leader, goes way back to Anderson College days!
Pastors’ wives from Washington and Oregon
In between our comings and goings we were house hunting! It has been our desire to be within walking distance of the WPC campus. Since interest rates are low we thought this was our “window of opportunity” to perhaps get a house close to campus where house prices are much higher.
Will and Mandy also got to look at a few houses with us. We made an offer and accepted a counter offer on a house just 4 blocks from campus. Of course it was contingent upon the sale of our house. So the next day the “For Sale” sign went up in our front yard.
After 2 ½ months or so of no calls we called it quits and have decided to refinance and stay put (a very short version of the story!). We do like our home and neighbors very much and are content. And we made a new friend out of the experience – we had a delightful real estate agent to work with.
I resigned from my SHAPE NW job Oct. 31 in order to devote more time to my organizing “business” and to be even more connected on the WPC campus. To celebrate reducing the amount of stress in my life I flew to Virginia on November 1 to spend time with my sisters and brother-in-law who are all living in Fredericksburg. AND I was there to surprise Jonni and Kyle when they drove to Fredericksburg to celebrate Jonni’s 26th birthday with her aunts. According to Jonni, “surprised” was an understatement! How I wish I’d had a video camera or camera to capture the look on their faces!! After touring the whole house and being shown their bedroom, Greta opened the door to the guest room across the hall from their room and there I was, lying on the bed reading a magazine! It seems that the light on the bedside table made it difficult for them to see WHO was on the bed – they walked in and saw this body on the bed but until I said something or their eyes focused they didn’t know who it was. It actually scared (startled, at least!) them. It has to be one of the best surprises I’ve ever pulled off. In order to keep it that way I didn’t even tell all our family that I was going out there to visit.
We did a We did a trolley tour of Fredericksburg, visited the Union cemetery with the Sunken Road and did a “Monuments by Moonlight” tour of Washington, D.C. We also put 3 puzzles together, staying up until 1 am after the D.C. tour to prove Kyle’s “You won’t finish that before we leave” statement wrong! I think Jonni’s 26th birthday will be one to remember!
Jonni and Kyle in historic Fredericksburg, Virginia
Jonni’s grandpa (Plough) used to call her “Princess” so her aunts made sure she was princess for a day!
Birthday breakfast at Bob Evans… Kyle, Greta, Jonni and Gwen
Jonni with Imo Glee and Imo Greta at the beginning of the Trolley Tour
(“imo” means “mother’s sister” in Korean which is the first word Jonni learned for her aunt Gretawho lived in Seoul when Jonni was a toddler growing up in Korea)
While there I was also able to connect with MaryAnn Litton, a friend from our Cairo, Egypt days whose daughters were in Jonni’s and Will’s classes at Cairo American College; Caity Stuart from Anderson, IN who works with the National Park Services in the Fredericksburg area; and fellow Anderson College lifeguard and friend, Kathy Harp. Each “reconnect” was special. Indeed, we are rich in friends!
On Dec. 20 John and I will be heading to Tokyo, Japan from Portland and Jonni and Kyle will be heading to Tokyo from Anderson… arriving, Lord willing, at Narita just an hour apart. Then begins our long-awaited and much-anticipated Christmas break in Tokyo with Will and Mandy and Don Deena (John’s oldest sister) and Bernie (our brother-in-law who will then head back to Indiana Christmas morning to be with, Cheryl, John’s sister who is undergoing chemotherapy treatment in Anderson). The plan was for us all to be together in Tokyo. We’re really disappointed that Cheryl and Bernie won’t be there. But we are very thankful that we will be with all our kids for Christmas!
Considering the end-of-semester busyness and our departure for Japan, this will likely be the extent of our holiday (Thanksgiving and Christmas) greetings this year. May you have a blessed and happy Thanksgiving and a Merry Christmas!!!
Forever grateful for our friends across the globe and our opportunities to stay connected… and God who makes it all possible!
Gwen for the both of us